Sharing is a social skill that many children, especially those with autism, need guidance on. Learning to share can be challenging, but with patience and the right strategies, you can help your child develop this essential skill.
Understanding the challenge of sharing
Many autistic children struggle with sharing due to difficulties with executive functioning, impulse control, or social awareness. Studies show that teaching sharing improves social interaction and emotional regulation.
Step-by-step approach to teach an autistic child to share
- Model sharing behavior: Show your child how to share by doing it yourself first. For example, share toys or snacks and talk about what you’re doing.
- Use visual supports: Visual schedules or social stories explain sharing in simple terms. Visuals help children understand expectations and different social scenarios.
- Reinforce positive behaviors: Praise or reward your child when they share, even if it’s small. Positive reinforcement gradually encourages more sharing attempts.
- Start small: Practice sharing in low-stakes situations. Use favorite toys or activities, then slowly expand to others.
- Teach patience and turn-taking: Help your child wait their turn and understand sharing as a way to take turns, not just giving things away.
Why it works
Research indicates that consistent, positive intervention improves sharing skills in children with autism. Professionals recommend using ABA techniques tailored to your child’s interests and developmental level.
Need support?
At Able Stars ABA Therapy, we specialize in teaching social skills like sharing. Contact us today to discover personalized strategies that work for your child’s needs and schedule a consultation.
Sources:
- https://raisingchildren.net.au/autism/school-play-work/play-learning/playing-with-others-autistic-children
- https://www.autismspeaks.org/expert-opinion/taking-turns
- https://www.autismawareness.com.au/navigating-autism/social-skill-development-and-friendships-for-autistic-children
- https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/family-life-and-relationships/making-friends/parents-and-carers
- https://howtoaba.com/how-to-help-a-child-tolerate-losing-or-being-out/
- https://www.autismparentingmagazine.com/how-to-help-autistic-child-with-social-skills/
